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Peer pressure is a very funny concept abi funny kind of pressure. This is because you don’t have to be forced into doing anything; it starts in your head. You might be constantly teased about not having something someone else has and it starts to register in your mind/head (choose one) that you’re not up to the standard you should be. Who sets the standard really so why bother? It can also come in form of people around you having something you don’t which you probably admire but have no means of getting – yet. Rather than wait for your time, you feel you should join the clique so you hustle anyhow you can to get it. Funny thing is, those who own it might have been allowing you access to theirs (I don’t mean babe here, nobody wants you to share their babe) to the extent that you won’t feel the need to get yours but you just can’t (kent) keep calm.    Peer pressure isn’t always negative as it usually is made to sound. Peer pressure can inspire you to do amazing s...

I’m no saint so I can’t brag about my love for God but I can definitely brag about His love for me. God truly sees our thoughts and knows our needs even before we ask. He knows exactly what we need and how to give it to us. I think and worry too much maybe even more than the people I know and what result do I get? None. I only end up making the situation worse than it was already. You know, I feel like God calls me baby because I can hear it clearly when I feel He’s   telling me to relax because He’s got me. To know the extent of how much I over think, let me give you an example. I’m the kind of person that might want to visit someone and be planning my responses mentally. Planning how to seat, whether or not to eat and many minute arrangements in my head that eventually doesn’t go as planned. Even after I take my leave, I analyze my actions there wondering if I said the wrong or right thing. But this voice in my head keeps saying “baby, relax”. There are lots of ...

Usually, when I say I don’t like people , it sounds like pride but what was I expecting it to sound like anyway? Me sef. I’m a person who likes boys, I prefer male friends so I have a lot of them. I don’t spend time with these guys because I’m an indoor person and you can’t really trust guys to visit. Every guy is a sharp guy but some are different, that was what I thought when I skipped a day of work to “chill” with John (not real name) in/at his house. We already chilled outdoors prior to my visit so I felt it was okay. Nigga made me lunch, fueled gen, put feem (played a movie), came close, started cuddling, rod touching my back almost and I’m like sigh so I said no more getting alone to be with boys. Anything could have happened and I would have blamed only myself. Yimu Just when I thought I would stick to my vows, something happened. It was a chilly evening in the land of nirvana….ok let’s get to the point. Ayo (not real name) said he’ll crash in my room after a party...