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Holding on to previous romantic attachments creates feelings of distrust and can put at risk an otherwise promising relationship. So are you wondering if your honey's heart still rests in the hands of a past love? There’s no way to know for sure without talking to your partner about your concerns. But how do you know when you need to have that talk? ‘Family share’ shares some of the tips with us; Talking About the Ex Too Much; We all compare our current romance to ones we’ve had in the past, and an occasional reference to an old steady is no cause for alarm. But if it’s happening 24-seven, it’s a problem. It’s going to keep both of you from enjoying the new relationship. If you're hearing every detail and story about the former relationship, it’s probably a sign that your partner hasn’t moved on. Not talking About the Former Love At All; Silence about a former lover can indicate lack of closure. Guilty feelings from carrying a secret torch often make a person n...

I understand that some people might not like this or they might pretend not to but it's okay. If you've never watched any form of pornography before, it doesn't mean you're a saint...yet. It is very possible that you've watched movies that had a lot of sexual scenes in it .eg. Game of thrones, Spartacus, the list is endless. If you've watched any of those and believe you've not watched porn, you can stop deceiving yourself already. If you've never watched any sexual movie, but you've read sexual novels or books that were able to successfully paint pictures of the action in your head, welcome to the club. If you don't like books or movies but you listen to sexual songs. E.g. Motivation by Kelly Rowland and these songs inspire the imaginative part of you to see what you're listening to, have a seat right here.   Don't say I didn't warn you Now that we're on the same page, let’s proceed. I don’t think it’s okay for...

What are your dislikes in a person? When people ask this question, I wonder if they really want to hear the truth or they want to hear the usual ‘I dislike dishonesty’ bla bla. I actually have a long list and I’m sure most of us do but we make it easier for the questioner by giving expected responses or telling them they would get to find out. Some of the contents in my long list are;   My likes and dislikeeees but lets talk about people now I dislike people who write smile/smiles instead of using the actual smile smiley. I dislike people who start a conversation with hmmm. I dislike people who brag. I dislike people who drag talks or talk too much generally, short and simple is good. I dislike people who ask irrelevant questions. E.g. Is Terry G still living at Fagba? What's my business? I dislike people who are too serious, at the slightest lol, they take offense; please carry your seriousness away. I dislike people who say lol instead of actually laugh...

Hunny bunnies of OTTH, we hope you enjoyed the first episode of 'the rant', if you didn't read it, get in here to read it so you'll know what you've been missing. Enjoy this episode. "This bad habit of yours ehn, I pray it won't kill you" majority of them told me, "Abegi, leave us" was my usual response and we laughed about it. Last year when Toke called to say "I thought you said Shina was in Warri for a conference", "Yes na, what happened?" I asked. "I just saw him here in Surulere" She said, "Haba, it can't be him, I saw him off to the airport, and I watched him leave" I said with a lot of confidence. "Hmmm, I go love oh" she said which was not new; she said it from time to time. "Okay, take a picture of him" I said to avoid making her feel like she just wasted her time informing me. "Picture ke, did I tell you I was following him up and down, I just saw he and o...