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What Are Your Dislikes?




What are your dislikes in a person? When people ask this question, I wonder if they really want to hear the truth or they want to hear the usual ‘I dislike dishonesty’ bla bla. I actually have a long list and I’m sure most of us do but we make it easier for the questioner by giving expected responses or telling them they would get to find out. Some of the contents in my long list are;
 
My likes and dislikeeees but lets talk about people now
I dislike people who write smile/smiles instead of using the actual smile smiley.
I dislike people who start a conversation with hmmm.
I dislike people who brag.
I dislike people who drag talks or talk too much generally, short and simple is good.
I dislike people who ask irrelevant questions. E.g. Is Terry G still living at Fagba? What's my business?
I dislike people who are too serious, at the slightest lol, they take offense; please carry your seriousness away.
I dislike people who say lol instead of actually laughing (my best-friend does this sometimes).
I dislike people who make illogical requests like asking me to send a voice note singing knowing fully well that I'm in public transport.
I dislike people who can't say thank you or sorry, always defending their actions instead.
I dislike people who will never make the first move on anything, even a conversation.
I dislike people who are not independent when they have every reason to be.
I dislike people who don't understand sarcasm.
I dislike people who are lousy no matter where they are.
I dislike people who don't respect people who are not up to their status.
I dislike people who believe you can't do without them.
I agree with the women, what did you expect?
 I dislike people who post pictures of their money, newly acquired clothing, gadget or shoes all the time.
I dislike people who constantly say they're better than another person; let your actions speak biko.
I dislike people who are not straightforward with their intentions.
I dislike people who won't greet and won't respond to your greeting either, I mean, who are you again?
I dislike people who can't say no to food offered them, haba, have small shame sometimes if not all the time.
I dislike people who try to make small talk even when they see that you have your headphones on.
I dislike people who flirt with their girlfriend's friends in front of the girlfriend (in case you were wondering, I was the friend, my boyfriend won't try it if he doesn't want to die).
I dislike people who won't tell you the good news when they know you've been praying and pulling strings to try to make it work.
I dislike people who do things for show off.
I dislike people who prioritize lovers over friends.
I dislike people who say things like once a thief, always a thief, once a lesbian, always a lesbian, people change ehn, give them a chance!
I dislike people who thinks you’re obliged to do certain things for them because jjhfghdgf.

Let me stop here and ask, what are your dislikes in a person?

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