Temperament: I am Choleric

My name is Choleric. I am hot-blooded and domineering. I speak in command tones to get things done. I love being dominant either by being better or being calm hence superior to those who lose their cool. I love standing up for people who are being bullied. I'm a natural leader because I'm very confident though this doesn't mean I enjoy leading, I'd just rather take charge of situations instead of worrying about them.

I believe it is important to prove myself all the time so I frequently challenge others aggressively in order to show my respect for their strength. I have the tendency to argue over anything and everything because of my ego. I wouldn't mind lying in order to maintain a dominant position. I don't like to be messed with, if you mess with me, you'll end up regretting knowing me. I love competition but I hate to lose.

I take pleasure in the misfortune of people I'm not on good terms with (don't know why). I blame others for my mistakes and I would lie to save face or else my ego is at stake. I meddle in the affairs of others rather than mind my own business. I speak my mind if necessary, I like being blunt rather than sugar coat words (what's the point). I hate being challenged and I'd constantly raise my voice to show I'm more superior. I am open to new experiences and also love adventures.

I am better than others. I am always right and would only admit my wrongs if it would make me look better. I demand respect, I strive for independence as I believe dependence is a weakness. Once again, I am Choleric.

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