Why would someone cheat on their partner?
Cheating in a relationship has a lot of causes ranging from money, religion, dissatisfaction, mistrust, to trying to play smart or not wanting to put all ones eggs in one basket among others.
I won't say it's fair to cheat in a relationship but yea, it's better to cheat in a relationship than in a marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
Cheating in a relationship isn't a big deal these days but why would you cheat in your marriage?
Why would you finally find "the one" and still want "another one"? I don't get it. Covetousness? Covetousness you say? Why didn't you sample enough people before settling down with one you won't still be contented with or isn't that the essence of dating?
Okay he changed, she changed, so??? Is that why they should be replaced? What happened to working it out? Ohhhh now I get it, you think your alternative out there would give you what he or she couldn't?
I'm not married but of all ways to hurt your partner or justify your "good" self, you would choose to cheat?
It hurts when married men asks other women out, I still don't get it. Maybe she carries what your wife doesn't sheyy but you knew your wife wasn't carrying these things the way you liked it and you still married her, *sigh*
You being the woman, you always knew he was a flirt but you thought marrying him would change him, you lie *in akpos' voice* and now you want to get back at him by cheating too but have forgotten that two wrongs can't make a right?
I was involved in an argument not too long ago and someone said "a man that would cheat would cheat no matter what". I quite agree with that, emphasis on quite. Why would you get married and start dressing like a maid because "what's there to see again, he sha sees it everyday" that's why you will not package yourself and look as sexy as he met you. Why won't he cheat, I mean, that's not enough reason but yea, it's something. If he'll cheat, he will but don't let it be because you did or aren't doing something, you can't let him use you as an excuse. You have to leave no stone unturned.
As a man, why would your wife cheat on you? I'm thinking...no woman has any excuse to cheat on her husband. You might be treating her terribly and she might in the process of finding comfort cheat on you. So I say treat her like she's the only woman in the world, love her endlessly and she won't slip from you except if she's not a virtuous woman.
To the women, it's okay to look casual in the house but in a sexy way, add a touch of sexy to everything you do, if he still cheats, then he's just a cheat. You'll have to hope that one day, he'll treat you the way you deserve.
To the unmarried ones like myself, let's date enough before we marry but bearing in mind that there's no perfect person anywhere, we should end up with the ones with the least and most bearable flaws.
To the married ones, there's always some out there who seems better than your spouse which is why you should be content with who you're married to. Know each other inside-out, try to work on your weaknesses and appreciate each other's strengths. Always compliment, communicate and pray with one another.
Cheating in a relationship has a lot of causes ranging from money, religion, dissatisfaction, mistrust, to trying to play smart or not wanting to put all ones eggs in one basket among others.
I won't say it's fair to cheat in a relationship but yea, it's better to cheat in a relationship than in a marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
Cheating in a relationship isn't a big deal these days but why would you cheat in your marriage?
Why would you finally find "the one" and still want "another one"? I don't get it. Covetousness? Covetousness you say? Why didn't you sample enough people before settling down with one you won't still be contented with or isn't that the essence of dating?
Okay he changed, she changed, so??? Is that why they should be replaced? What happened to working it out? Ohhhh now I get it, you think your alternative out there would give you what he or she couldn't?
I'm not married but of all ways to hurt your partner or justify your "good" self, you would choose to cheat?
It hurts when married men asks other women out, I still don't get it. Maybe she carries what your wife doesn't sheyy but you knew your wife wasn't carrying these things the way you liked it and you still married her, *sigh*
You being the woman, you always knew he was a flirt but you thought marrying him would change him, you lie *in akpos' voice* and now you want to get back at him by cheating too but have forgotten that two wrongs can't make a right?
I was involved in an argument not too long ago and someone said "a man that would cheat would cheat no matter what". I quite agree with that, emphasis on quite. Why would you get married and start dressing like a maid because "what's there to see again, he sha sees it everyday" that's why you will not package yourself and look as sexy as he met you. Why won't he cheat, I mean, that's not enough reason but yea, it's something. If he'll cheat, he will but don't let it be because you did or aren't doing something, you can't let him use you as an excuse. You have to leave no stone unturned.
As a man, why would your wife cheat on you? I'm thinking...no woman has any excuse to cheat on her husband. You might be treating her terribly and she might in the process of finding comfort cheat on you. So I say treat her like she's the only woman in the world, love her endlessly and she won't slip from you except if she's not a virtuous woman.
To the unmarried ones like myself, let's date enough before we marry but bearing in mind that there's no perfect person anywhere, we should end up with the ones with the least and most bearable flaws.
To the married ones, there's always some out there who seems better than your spouse which is why you should be content with who you're married to. Know each other inside-out, try to work on your weaknesses and appreciate each other's strengths. Always compliment, communicate and pray with one another.
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Its just like buying that crazy phone you ever wanted. The moment you have it, it looses it value...but when you appreciate the one you already have, you are patient for the greater good, enjoy the moment and save your cash plus emotion.