The other day, I wrote about “The Hustle Of Many Colors”, you can click here to read. In that post, I talked about different kind of hustles except one which I omitted on purpose as I saw it as a topic for another day and I think today is the day. I decided to write about this when I read an article on nairaland about guys who prefer sugar mummies to young girls with great emphasis on SUGAR MUMMIES.
According to them, a sugar mummy knows what she wants and how she wants it unlike young ladies. Advocates of the sugar mummy 'thingy' also made it clear that sugar mummies hardly complain about everything unlike young ladies who whine over almost everything. They also believe that young girls have financial demands that need to be met while the reverse is the case with sugar mummies who even meets their own financial demands when all they have to do in return is wow them sexually.
We could go on and on with the benefits of being with a sugar mummy as against being with a single young lady but then have we tried examining the disadvantages of such relationship? It is no news in our very own Nigeria and other parts of the world that destinies of a lot of young men have been jeopardised as a result of their involvement in such a relationship. The hustle is real, very real and it's real everywhere. As the ‘sharp’ guys are trying to get more cash, so are the sugar mummies. You just can’t be so sure that all you’re giving in return is sex; you might be giving out a lot more than you bargained for.
This isn’t to mean that all sugar mummies use ‘jazz’, some women are just sex-starved or not satisfied with what they’re getting from their spouses or their sex partners. A lot of sugar mummies are highly influential and wealthy too. If they weren’t, you wouldn’t be with them. But have you considered the consequences of getting caught by her husband or whoever she’s ‘with’? You could be badly wounded or even killed. And since they're usually either wealthy or influential or both, your death would most likely never be traced back to them. No one even wants to die for love talk less of a relationship that is based strictly on benefits.
I remember reading about one guy who 'scammed' his sugar mummy and ran away, she found him out and killed him as punishment. It then got me thinking if it was really worth dying for. This is not to mean that evil befalls everyone who indulges in such act, of course, a lot of people get away with it. I just believe that there are lots of way to acquire success other than some things we do like the subject being discussed. The fact that you want to have more more, live in a luxurious apartment, own the best clothes and shoes should even inspire you to work harder and I mean actual hard work. The one God adds blessings to, it's safer and adds more value to your life. You might not "get rich quick" as planned but you'd hustle with pride and definitely have God's blessings.
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According to them, a sugar mummy knows what she wants and how she wants it unlike young ladies. Advocates of the sugar mummy 'thingy' also made it clear that sugar mummies hardly complain about everything unlike young ladies who whine over almost everything. They also believe that young girls have financial demands that need to be met while the reverse is the case with sugar mummies who even meets their own financial demands when all they have to do in return is wow them sexually.
This isn’t to mean that all sugar mummies use ‘jazz’, some women are just sex-starved or not satisfied with what they’re getting from their spouses or their sex partners. A lot of sugar mummies are highly influential and wealthy too. If they weren’t, you wouldn’t be with them. But have you considered the consequences of getting caught by her husband or whoever she’s ‘with’? You could be badly wounded or even killed. And since they're usually either wealthy or influential or both, your death would most likely never be traced back to them. No one even wants to die for love talk less of a relationship that is based strictly on benefits.
I remember reading about one guy who 'scammed' his sugar mummy and ran away, she found him out and killed him as punishment. It then got me thinking if it was really worth dying for. This is not to mean that evil befalls everyone who indulges in such act, of course, a lot of people get away with it. I just believe that there are lots of way to acquire success other than some things we do like the subject being discussed. The fact that you want to have more more, live in a luxurious apartment, own the best clothes and shoes should even inspire you to work harder and I mean actual hard work. The one God adds blessings to, it's safer and adds more value to your life. You might not "get rich quick" as planned but you'd hustle with pride and definitely have God's blessings.
Facebook - Odusola Aanuoluwapo
Twitter - @odusolar
BBM - 2BC07AB1
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